The Phoenix Dating Scene

I met up with Sarah on Saturday night at Graham Central Station and met all her friends. By the time everyone showed up there was 8 girls and 4 guys. The guys were boyfriends of 4 of the girls. I do not remember all their names but they were all very cool and made me feel very relaxed and welcome. Sarah was very attractive and all night long guys kept coming up to her and hitting on her. In fact I have never seen a girl get hit on so much in my life. She blew them ALL off... I am not sure if this is a good or bad thing. At first I was like well she must like me and that's why she keeps sending these guys away but she was playing it very cool with me also sort of just treating me like a friend.

I think it was because she was acting like my friend that I had 7 different girls come up to me, touching me and talking to me. I have never had that much female attention in any situation ever. At first I was sort of just punking the girls off like she was doing to the guys which made them want me even more... which by the way taught me a lot about human relations. But later in the night when I noticed she was not really trying to hook up with me I thought well maybe I can make her jealous by actually engaging these girls who were coming up to me so I started to do that which was a lot of fun and I have 4 phone numbers now as a result of that.

The thing is that she didn't seem jealous, if anything she seemed genuinely happy for me which I thought was odd and I am hoping is just her way of coping because it is HER that I really want. Although I probably only want her the most because she WAS punking me off, cuz one of the other girls I met was even hotter. The last few hours is a bit of haze but somehow I made it home in a taxi and I don't remember much about how we parted ways but I'm pretty sure not much hapened.

I learned a lot. Had a great time and met some great people. So far meeting girls online is a success in my book

Hello to all my friends reading this from Sweden! I won't speak in Swedish because I don't want to offend my English readers. I am going out tomorrow night with that girl Melissa I was talking about in my last post. She said we are going to be meeting up with all her friends then going clubbing at Graham Central Station, Bash On Ash, and Whip Lounge. I am not very good at dancing so I am presently downloading a how to dance dvd lol. My favorite TV show here in the US so far is a show called 30 Rock, I really like that show and I am going to go back and watch all 4 seasons.

Right now it is very cold back in Oslo according to my parents and friends so I am happy that I am here in Arizona where it is nice and warm every day. A coworker of mine gave me his old mountain bike so I have been riding around exploring the city - it has been pretty fun. I am also a big fan of the UFC and I am looking forward to the show tomorrow night... oh crap... I won't be able to watch it because I will be out clubbing I will have to watch it on Sunday.

I am getting a lot of girls that want to "show me around the city" because I am new to the city and country for that matter. They say things like cute and adorable and I am not sure if this is a good or bad thing. I do not want the image of a goody two shoes... I really do have a darker side There is a Columbian girl named Gloria that I have been chatting with. She is so ridiculously hot and she has the most amazing body! She sounds like a very freaky and wild kind of girl. Not exactly what I am used to but hey I need to explore all my options.

I also really like the band Third Eye Blind. It is too bad they don't make music anymore I am hoping I can find a girl that has the same taste in music and movies etc. I have been trying to quit smoking cigarettes but it is so hard, especially when I drink booze or drink coffee (in fact im smoking a cig right now ) I was thinking I should try and meet a girl who doesn't smoke then it would be easier to quit. Also even though I smoke, I hate the taste of smoke on a girl's breath I mean yuck

I am happy to be here in the USA and even though I am working hard and not making much money, I am very happy about this new life and the great new people I have met online and in the real world. I really want to go see the movie 2012 sometime this week but I dunno when I am gonna be able to go. It would be nice to take a girl with me but I am not sure what kind of girls would be into such a crazy disaster movie. Time to find out.

Wow Phoenix is so much different than Oslo. The girls here are much more forward than in Sweden. I have been talking to a lot of girls online and 3 of them already want to meet me and have me take them out for dinner. I don't really have much money so maybe they will be into me cooking some food for them and watching a movie or something.

There are a lot of great movies I have not seen yet that I have been meaning to see. I might be able to take some girls to some inexpensive places like Ticoz Resto-bar. I need to see if District 9 is out on DVD yet because I really want to see that movie. The last good movie I saw was called "Rise of the Footsoldier" which was an awesome UK gangster movie.

So back to the girls, you don't want to hear about movies lol. There is one girl I have been chatting with named Melissa. She is very American if there is such a thing. I am kind of intimidated by how forward she is. She is one of these very bubbly outgoing girls who has lots of friends and lots of pics of her with her friends out partying. I think nothing but good things could come from hanging out with her. At minimum I would create a new circle of friends to hang out with.

What else can I tell you all right now. I am definitely liking the nice warm weather that we are getting here in Phoenix. This desert climate is a nice change from the cold winters of Sweden. I am working on lining up some dates for this weekend or perhaps even sooner if I can convince a girl to come over to my place for a home cooked meal and a movie.

Hello everyone, my name is Chris and I am 24 years old. I just moved to Phoenix from Sweden and I decided to make this blog to outline the adventures that I will have now that I am here. I finished school in Sweden for computer programming and now I have a job with a gaming company here in Phoenix. It is only an entry level position but I am just happy to be living here in the United States now.

I don't know anyone here so I thought I would sign up for an online dating site and try and meet girls through this method. I have already connected with a few girls online and I am having a great time so far. I am hoping to actually meet some of these girls in real life in the next couple of weeks or so and I decided I would blog about it so my friends at home can follow along with my new life.