We strolled through the city and ended up in this cool little park. It was a little windy and the breeze was blowing her hair around so she kept brushing it away and the whole time I was thinking is this a legitimate brush away or is this an indicator of interest. When you are engaging a woman, if she brushes her hair aside, that is an indicator of interest. It means she is interested in you and is physically attracted enough to sleep with you. That is right, women make the decision whether or not they would have sex with you within the first 6 seconds of seeing you. Men don't think of this shit too often because most men would bang most women. It really has to take a lot for a man to be not willing to have sex with a woman. Men are very different to women in this way, but as a man it is cool to know if a woman is attracted to you or not and all you need to do is be perceptive of their "tells" and you will go a long way.
Simply knowing that the woman is attracted to you is just the beginning. Attraction is common. Beauty is common. I am certainly no expert in this field but I have observed many things from many sources and most of it is true and is turning out to be beneficial in my life helping me get what I want and also help me understand myself and the motivation of others. People are all very different yet very similar on many levels if that makes any sense.
I am getting off on a rant here but the bottom line is that I didn't feel the right chemistry with Theresa. There were things about her that were irritating and things I could tell I could not tolerate. Also she seemed a bit shy and prudeish and I don't think she would be very good in bed or be very open minded. I won't be talking to her again.
I have turned my sights to the various other girls that have messaged me since I joined the online dating site and I noticed there is a few cool looking girls in there. I have realized that it is very hard to judge how someone is going to be simply by looking at their online profile. This is why I want to meet lots of girls and see what I like and what I don't like. I think I am going to be surprised by the findings of this. I think I am going to find things I like in women that I had no idea I was attracted to.
There are a couple of cute girls that have sent me messages but I can clearly tell they are the type of girl that is getting a lot of messages from a lot of guys and unless I do something to make myself stand out she won't even notice me and probably doesn't remember me unless I messaged her in the last 24 hours. So if I want to get anywhere with these girls I need to make my presence known and I need to demonstrate higher value somehow. This is all a work in progress.
